Iowa police arrest woman in 2011 murder of realtor Ashley Okland after nearly 15 years

 March 19, 2026

A 53-year-old woman named Kristin Ramsey has been charged with the first-degree murder of Ashley Okland, the Iowa realtor who was shot to death while showing a model townhouse during an open house in 2011. Ramsey was arrested on Tuesday, March 17, and is being held on a $2 million cash bond.

The arrest closes one of Iowa's most haunting cold cases. Okland was 27 years old when she was killed on April 8, 2011, at a property on Stone Creek Court in West Des Moines. According to The Charlotte Observer, she was discovered bleeding by one of the development workers and rushed to Iowa Methodist Medical Center in Des Moines. She did not survive.

Investigators determined she had been shot twice.

Nearly 15 Years of Silence, Then an Answer

For close to a decade and a half, Okland's family and community waited. No arrest. No public motive. No closure. The case moved from active investigation to cold case status, handed to detectives who specialize in cases that the rest of the system has moved past.

West Des Moines Assistant Chief Jody Hayes acknowledged the weight of the moment but signaled the work is far from over: "As significant as this arrest is, our work is not done yet."

Hayes added that the case will now move to criminal prosecution and that the department cannot release additional investigative information to maintain the integrity of the judicial process. That restraint matters. A first-degree murder charge carries the highest burden of proof, and police clearly intend to protect their case as it moves through the courts.

It remains unclear whether Ramsey and Okland knew each other or whether the murder was committed at random. A motive for the killing has not been disclosed.

The Woman They Lost

Ashley Okland started her real estate career in 2007 and began working for Iowa Realty Company in 2010. By all accounts, she was building a life defined by purpose well beyond property listings. She volunteered with Young Variety and Big Brothers and Big Sisters. Her father, Tim Okland, told the Register she was "passionate about helping children."

Her obituary described her as a "transplanted country girl at heart" and painted the portrait of a woman who poured herself into the people around her:

"She lived happily in West Des Moines with her 'Hun' Eric and new pup, Indi. Above all else, Ashley loved spending time with her family and friends. Always on the go, her biggest struggle was finding the time to make everyone feel as special as she thought they should."

That's who was taken. Not a statistic. Not a cold case file number. A 27-year-old woman whose biggest problem, before someone shot her twice in a model home, was finding enough hours in the day for the people she loved.

A Family's Long Wait

Okland's brother, Josh, thanked the community and police for keeping his sister's case alive. Her sister, Brittany Bruce, thanked law enforcement for their efforts, particularly the cold case detectives who had been assigned to the case.

There is something worth noting in that gratitude. Cold case units exist because communities refuse to forget, and because departments commit resources to cases that yield no headlines, no political pressure, no public urgency. The model townhouse on Stone Creek Court stopped being news a long time ago. The detectives kept working anyway.

That persistence deserves recognition in an era when policing is relentlessly second-guessed, and law enforcement budgets are treated as bargaining chips. Cold case work is painstaking, unglamorous, and easy to cut when a city council needs to redirect funds. West Des Moines kept the commitment. A family now has an answer because of it.

Justice Deferred, Not Denied

The details that remain undisclosed, the motive, the connection or lack thereof between suspect and victim, will matter enormously in the courtroom. A first-degree murder charge means prosecutors believe they can prove premeditation. That is not a charge filed lightly, especially in a case where the evidence has aged nearly 15 years.

For now, the facts are spare but heavy. A woman was murdered at work. Her killer walked free for almost a decade and a half. An arrest has been made. The judicial process begins.

Ashley Okland's family waited 15 years for this moment. The least the system owes them now is a prosecution that honors every one of those years.

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